Been a very long time

So it has been a very long time and we are still here working and living. hayden is almost 4 now and acting his age. we are expecting our 2nd at the end of september and love the idea. Ryan wants more and I don't for sure. I have never wanted more than 2 or 3 children. any who Hayden loves the idea of being a big brother and insists on having a sister not a brother, if he gets a brother he will cut it up. He told the our friend who watches him that he has a brother in his tummy, so mabye he is changing his mind. I don't find out until may 11th. I am hoping for a girl but will be happy for another boy I have the stuff for a boy.

My friend and I just went on a weekend out with out the boys and loved it, we went to ST George. we shoped and were lazy and stuff. I got sick and ended up in the insta care sat night. I was put on antiobotics. My friend said that she is not going on vacaion with me again because every thime we go I get sick or it rains. hmm I can't prevent that from happening, i mean mother nature has her ideas and plans and me getting ill just happens and I hate myself for that. well we stayed at the Sands Motel which was not all that bad except the locks on the door woulden't work and the beds were harder than a rock and the water pressure was non existant. I was not feeling well saturday and I was getting very upset at everything. I needed a nap. so we came to the hotel to rest for a while and 1/2 hour later we were still trying to get into our room by that time I was saying not so nice words and holly was trying to calm me down. she wanted me to go and tell the managers that we wernt getting into our room, I said if I go in there I will not be nice so bless her heart she went in there and yelled at them (really) they changed our keys and we got in our room. we swear it was the door its self that was malfunctioning. I don't think I will ever book that motel again.
earlier that day we went to the tabernacle and looked around and got the scoop on it. the tour guide didn't want his picture taken but I got it when he was not expecting it. there were some interesting things in the building I got pictures of. we then went for a walk and looked around there was an old school and library that have been up graded and now there is a swimming place for the children to play in and a water park kind of thing. Alisha and Kevin met us there and we talked and played for a while. I am taking hayden to St george this summer just for the water park, it's like nothing we have here. red rocks and water so nice. we didn't make it to Zions National park so when we go again we will have to go. all in all it was a good trip concerding all teh mishaps.

work and family life as of today.

Its been about a month and I haven't written, yet I have ben very busy like everybodyelce I have a family and a house to keep up. I have a new job. its where I was working before hayden was born. I am a medical assisstant again and loving it. I work at the University of Utah and other places where they send me. yes I am an agency worker the nams would be MSN Medical Staffing Network. they actually called me a few months ago and asked if I would come back to work for them and I said I still had a litle one and another job, then I started to think about it and talked to ryan about it, I was so happy that ryan was on the same street as I was, so I did my CEU classes and 156 dollars later I was licenced again. yeah I am so happy, I worked in a health fair one week and the next week I was at the U of U working in clinic 1a which is an infectious disease clinic. I was there for 2 hours and then sent home due to not many patients. it was good to be sent home because I was not feeling well. As I was feeling like crap I was getting worse, so I called in the next day and really had no voice I went to the dr the next day and they did a Flu exam on me I think they were digging for my brain it hurt so much. I started to cry. yes it hurt. as it turns out I have had the flu type B a not so bad flu it just has to take its course, I begged the dr to let me go to work and he said no not at all I need the weekend to recover. I was so bummed to not work as I was going to the Huntsman Center the next day. any who I feel much better today and its saturday I mean yesterday I felt better also. I hope that dose not happen again for a while. I get to start giving shots with the SL County soon both the H1N1 shots and the flu shots.
Ryan and I have started this PDox exercist thing on DVD his co workers started it and are looking good d=so he wanted to start it. he loves it.I on the other hand don't its not for me I like to go to the gym and not pushed into a workout routine. hayden likes to workout with daddy, like the other day he worked out with daddy and when I got up he showed me what he had learned its like a dance routine, he said "kick out here shake butt then kick out here and shake butt" it was so funny I laughed he even showed my parents by leaning on the TV and kicking and wiggling his butt. todya he did some abbs with daddy.
well thats my life as of right now.

hayden and what he says

oh the things little boys say,
1. daddy you stink go to the bathroom
2.the neighboors cat is named BRAT
3.I want to go to school
4.I want a job
5.i am glad to see you
6.I want to feed the spider
7.I like soap (lotion) we had to move all the lotion from his room today
8.I'm not tired as he falls to sleep
9.I am a big boy so he can get out of doing things.

we were at the dermatologist the other day and hayden was saying its ok mom the whole time the doctor was working on me. he even said thank you to the doctor for working on him. he looked at haydens eye. the other day hayden found a way to climb the retaining wall in our back yard. He climbed on his fire truck to get up, then he walked the palnk for a while. he tried to jump down off the wall and that is a little to high for him so as he was getting ready saying"get ready set and as he said go I cought him in mid air.
hayden deffinatly keeps us on our feet.we love our little boy so much and would be lost without him.

The fun week and weekend

ok so Ithink I figured out how to put pictures on here. hayden has had a fun week and weekend and I want to show off some ictures. first we went to the tracy aviary on wednesday and he loved it he even stood like a pink flamingo of course he held onto the stroller. yesterday sat we went to the county fair in South Jordan and he also had a blast and petted a lot of animals. even a cammel he loved it and wants to go back soon. on the way to the fair we were driving and he said "dad I want to get a job." that was out of the blue. of course he is always saying weird things that are out of the blue.

The Oven

Oh the oven trouble. A few months ago our oven started to do weird things such as f2ing us and turning its self off. finally about 2 months ago it went out and would not even get up to temp. it got to the point that it would f2 me multipule times each time the oven was on. and I f2 it back each time. the week before the oven went out I made a pork roast for sunday dinner. well it took about 3 hours to get to 140 degrees, so I called Darla and we finished cooking it at her house. thats when I told Bob about it, he went right to work on it. the next day he came over to look at the oven, he checked the temp and other things. then he called A repair man that Rick knows. to make a long story short he ordered a part 20 dollars. and almost 3 weeks later he cam over and replaced the part. and my oven works. thanks Bob. ryan and I hope this is not a fluke. Saturday I made Smores brownies and Calzones ans yesterday (sunday) I made meat loaf and it cooked on time and everything.
we are so happy.

Hayden and his little friends

Hayden loves his little friends, he has a few girl friends and his favorite color is pink. there is this little girl oh about 8 months younger than him. they are connected by the hip. the other night when Ryan got home he went to check on Hayden, when he came into the room he asked me If I knew what hayden was dreaming about. I said no what and he asked who Abby was. Abby is his friend who we were going to watch the next morning. turnes out that he was talking about her in his sleep. Abby will not go to her nursery class at all but she will go to Haydens class or to my class. Today after church Abby wanted to go find Hayden and say good bye. hayden was actually looking for abby. ya he is quite the little flirt when it comes to girls. he has no boy friends yet. what to do?
Hayden is growing like a weed he now weighs about 25lbs and a little taller than last year. his bed time is 9pm and he is my alarm clock every morning oh around 7:30am every morning.sometimes even earlier.Hayden loves to get into everything and anything. he also loves his dads tools so if anybody knows who hasplay tools please let me know.

The Great Outdoors

Well yesterday was tuesday April 22 and Hayden and I and My client went to the Gateway and had a blast. We met Ryan there and had dinner then off to some fun activities. Mitchell my client, he wanted to walk around and check out all the girls. He is 16 go figure. any who we went to the gateway to run through the fountain, but instead they had a basketball court up and t-mobile was putting it on, they had food, drinks and prizes. they also had a huge tv on the ball game. Ben And Jerrys icecream was giving free ice cream out that was yummy.so in the mist of everything we all got a little mors sun than wanted. haydens arms and mine are burnt ok red.
Today was a great day to Wednesday April 23rd we went to the park with some neighboors. the Morning Cloak park. that was nice hayden played he really enjoyed the swing. then we went on a long walk, then home and played outside in front. we got more sun now on our faces. then play date came and we went to the south Jordan Swimming pool and swam until hayden swallowed to much water and threw up in the pool. ya Grose. so we went to Riverton Park and played a while. so now we are home and hayden is sleeping like a baby. I love spending time with my son. someone told me that hayden is only 2 once, and work isn't the most important thing hayden is. so now I only work 3-4 days a week and in the evening so I get to spend more time with Hayden. and only 2 days out of the week I need someone to watch him. I am so happy now.